The Tiny Shindig
You have the space, so why not use it to your advantage? Having a backyard shindig is perfect for couples that can really relate to the saying, "Home is where the heart is!" What a perfect way to tie the knot without having your stomach in a knot - stressing about showing up to a venue on time, and all the other worries that come along with pre-wedding jitters. Get hitched in the comfort of your home, your parents', or even a close friend's humble abode. Heck, you can even rent a stranger's home on sites such as Airbnb or Homeaway.(if owners allow it of course.)
Whatever you decide, just have a little faith and it'll all turn out just fine! Check out the list below for a lil' inspiration.
This post is slightly geared towards my Miami residents. If you need any additional ideas, shoot me an email and i'll do my best to find vendors in your home city!
- Create a budget! All great events must begin with a budget!
- Make a guest list. Yes, you must make one in order to calculate what supplies you’ll need! In my opinion, a small wedding consists of anywhere between 10-60 guests.
- Get an officiant, or if renewing your vows, get a friend to perform the ceremony! There's nothing like having someone who knows you two lovebirds like the back of their hand be apart of your big day.
- Hire valet or ask your neighbors if they are willing to lend their parking spaces. You can even offer them a slice of cake from Bunnie Cakes or tell them to stop by for a signature cocktail as a token of your appreciation.
- Need to spruce up the place? Consider furniture rental. Unearthed Vintage provides the trendiest, vintage-chic collection in South Florida.
- Need some centerpieces? Some pretty bunches of Baby's Breath in mason jars will do!
- Cater from your favorite local restaurant. If the food makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside, chances are your guests will feel the same way too.
- Go to Costco/BJs for some bottles! My husband prefers vodka and was given a HUGE bottle for Christmas. The quality and price were superb! Set up a station where guests can serve themselves OR If you know they love to indulge in that "dancing juice" a little too much, hire a bartender for portion control. Another option: Hitched Affair - Only the coolest mobile bar in Miami.
- Need some music? No Prob! Create an eclectic playlist and use portable speakers.
- Make a flower wall as a cool backdrop for photo ops.
- Get a photographer to capture the party. Since you're not having a traditional 6-8 hour wedding, some photographers may be willing to create a special package for you. Don’t be afraid to ask!
- I don’t know if it's because we’re getting older or what, but our friends and I have the most fun when we stay in and play games. Board games, card games, games on apps, you name it! "Games at a wedding? Why?" Well, why not!